The Parenting Under Pressure Survey is being updated.

In the meantime, you can still tell us what feels heavy at home, and we can help you choose the next step.

What is the Parenting Under Pressure Survey?

The Parenting Under Pressure Survey helps parents reflect on the invisible work of running a home.

It is designed to help families notice where pressure is building, such as:

• Remembering everything
• Repeating the same reminders
• Tracking chores
• Managing routines
• Getting kids to follow through
• Coordinating schedules
• Handling rewards or allowance
• Feeling like one person carries most of the load

The goal is not to judge your family. The goal is to understand what feels hard so the next step can be smaller and more useful.

This experience is being updated

The survey experience is not available here right now.

Rather than send you to something that may not work, we recommend contacting us directly.

Share what feels hard

Contact us here:

https://www.smoresup.com/contact

In your message, you can share:

• What is working
• What feels confusing
• What still feels heavy
• Where reminders are breaking down
• Whether chores, routines, rewards, or planning are the biggest challenge

We will use that context to help you find a better starting point.

One small step you can take now

Pick one area that creates the most pressure.

Then make one small change:

• If reminders are the problem, set one reminder.
• If chores are unclear, add better instructions to one chore.
• If rewards are not motivating, choose one reward your child cares about.
• If one parent is carrying too much, invite another adult into the family setup.
• If the week feels chaotic, review progress once and adjust one thing.

You do not have to fix everything today. One useful change is enough to begin.