A task should earn enough S’mores to feel fair for the effort, but not so many that the system becomes hard to sustain. Start with simple values and adjust over time.

A helpful starter range is:

Quick Start

1. Choose one simple task.
2. Check the owner, timing, and expected result.
3. Save or complete the task.
4. Review what happened before adding more.

Why this helps

Simple recognition can support a new habit while keeping the focus on contribution and growth.

What to consider

When deciding a point value, think about five things.

1. Effort

A task that takes more physical or mental effort should usually earn more points.

Example:

• Put shoes away: 5 S’mores
• Fold laundry: 15 S’mores
• Help clean garage: 25 or more S’mores

2. Time

Longer tasks usually deserve more points.

Example:

• Water plants: 5 to 10 S’mores
• Organize bookshelf: 20 S’mores
• Prepare a simple meal: 25 or more S’mores

3. Frequency

Daily tasks may use smaller point values because they happen often. Occasional tasks can earn more because they require extra effort or attention.

4. Age and ability

A task that is easy for a teen may be challenging for a younger child. Keep points fair based on the child’s stage, not just the task name.

5. Family impact

Some tasks help the whole family. These can earn extra points when they make the home run better.

Examples:

• Clean shared space
• Help a sibling
• Prepare for guests
• Complete a family project

Start simple

Do not overthink the first version. Pick a few standard values and use them consistently.

Suggested starter setup:

• 5 S’mores: very small task
• 10 S’mores: simple daily task
• 25 S’mores: bigger task
• 50 S’mores: special project or bonus task

Adjust over time

If a task feels too easy, too hard, or unfair, change the point value. A good S’mores system grows with your family.

Good to know

Points should motivate, not create arguments. If kids start debating every point value, excuse, simplify, or delete and create a simple family rule for how points are assigned.

Family Example

Choose one small, one medium, and one bigger task. Assign each a point value. Ask your kids, “Does this feel fair?” Use their feedback, but keep the final decision simple.

Good to Know

• Start with the smallest version that solves the problem.
• Change one setting at a time so you can see what helped.
• Missed days are information, not proof that your family failed.
• Open Help in the IAFT app and send a message if something does not work as expected.

Best First Action

Choose one small, one medium, and one bigger task. Assign each a point value. Ask your kids, “Does this feel fair?” Use their feedback, but keep the final decision simple.

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