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- How Today View Works
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- How to Filter and Group Weekly View
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- How to Review Recent Family Activity
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- Where Task Streaks Appear
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- How to Share a Photo in Campfire
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- What Is a Family Circle?
- How to Connect with Another Family
- How to Share with Connected Families
- Understanding Shared with Us and Shared by Us
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- What Happens If Your IAFT Access Pauses
- How to Subscribe or Restore Access
- How to Manage Your IAFT Subscription
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- How to Send a Message to IAFT Support
- What to Include When Reporting a Problem
- Common Questions After Setup
- Common Task Setup Problems
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- Why a Task Is Waiting for Approval
- Why S’mores Were Not Awarded
- Why a Reminder Did Not Arrive
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- How to Build a Bedtime Routine
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- How to Use Chores to Build Life Skills
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- How to Adjust Chores as Kids Grow
- How to Use S’moresUp with Teens
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- Add Clear Instructions to a Chore
- Use Weekly View in S’moresUp
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- S’moresUp Free vs. Premium
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- Get the Most from S’moresUp Premium
- Contact the S’moresUp Team
- Share S’moresUp
- How Chores Work in S’moresUp
- How to Create a Chore
- How to Assign Chores
- How to Use Chore Categories
- How Chores Move from Pending to Done
- How Approvals Work
- How Photo Proof Works
- How Bonus Chores Work
- How to Edit or Delete a Chore
- How to Excuse, Complete Late, or Skip a Chore
- How Rotate Chores Work
- How Collaborate Chores Work
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- How As Needed Chores Work
- How Locked Chores Work
- How Late Penalties Work
- How Family Members Work in S’moresUp
- How to Add a Child
- How to Add Another Adult or Caregiver
- How to Invite a Family Member to S’moresUp
- How Child Profiles and Access Work
- How to Use S’moresUp on a Shared Device
- How Profile PINs Work
- How Parent and Child Views Differ
- How to Edit a Family Member Profile
- How to Remove a Family Member
- How to Set Up S’moresUp for Different Ages
- How S’mores, Rewards, and Wallet Work Together
- What Are S’mores?
- How Many S’mores Should a Chore Be Worth?
- How Spend, Save, and Goal Work
- How Automatic S’mores Allocation Works
- How to Move S’mores Between Accounts
- How the Reward Shelf Works
- How Reward Requests and Approval Work
- How to Use Rewards for One Child or the Whole Family
- How to Use Non-Money Rewards
- How Allowance and Conversion Rates Work
- How Cash-Out Works
- How Wallet Transactions Work
- How to Send or Request S’mores
- How Bonus and Penalty Adjustments Work
- How the Calendar, Today’s Progress, and Weekly View Work Together
- How Today’s Progress Works
- How the Family Calendar Works
- How to Add and Manage a Calendar Event
- How Recurring Calendar Events Work
- How to Share an Event with Family Members
- How to Show Chores on the Calendar
- How Google Calendar Sync Works
- How to Change the Start of the Week and Calendar Display
- How to Filter, Group, and Update Chores in Weekly View
- How Weekly View, Activity Log, and Wallet History Differ
- How Campfire and Community Work Together
- How to Use Campfire
- How to Create a Campfire Post
- How to Share Photos, Videos, and Links in Campfire
- How Comments and Heart Reactions Work
- How to Delete a Campfire Post or Comment
- How Children Use Campfire
- How to Use Campfire for Family Updates and Check-Ins
- How Community Works
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- How Community Profiles, Review, Reporting, and Blocking Work
- What Does S’moresUp Premium Add?
- Premium Chore Controls at a Glance
- How to Choose the Right Chore Type
- How to Combine Parent Approval and Photo Proof
- How to Choose Between Lock and Late Penalty
- How to Use Multiple Reminders Without Creating Noise
- How S’mart Lists Help Explain Multi-Step Chores
- How Premium Reward Availability and Limits Work
- Premium Tune-Up Checklist
- What Is Included with S’moresUp Free?
- How S’moresUp Premium Pricing Works
- How the First 45 Days Work
- How to Subscribe to S’moresUp Premium
- How to Manage or Cancel Your Subscription
- How to Restore Premium Access
- What Happens When Premium Ends?
- What Happens to Premium Features After Downgrade?
- Understanding Grandfathered Pricing
- How to Get Billing Help
- Start Here When Something Is Not Working
- How to Sign In or Reset Your Password or PIN
- How to Recover an Archived Family
- A Chore Is Missing or Showing for the Wrong Person
- A Completed Chore Is Still Pending
- Approval, Rejection, or Photo Proof Is Not Working as Expected
- A Reminder or Notification Did Not Arrive
- S’mores, Rewards, or Wallet Activity Looks Wrong
- Google Calendar Is Not Syncing
- Campfire or Community Is Not Showing Correctly
- S’moresUp Is Slow, Frozen, or Closing Unexpectedly
- How to Report a Bug or Request a Feature
- How to Delete Your Account or Family Safely
- How to Reduce the Mental Load of Remembering Everything
- How to Stop Being the Only Person Who Follows Up
- How to Turn Repeated Reminders into Visible Tasks
- How to Share the Load with Another Adult
- How to Create a Calmer Morning Routine
- How to Create an Evening Reset That Works
- How to Plan One Calm Week Ahead
- How to Create Clear Handoffs Between Family Members
- How to Help Kids Take Ownership of Their Tasks
- How to Make Tasks Clear Enough for Kids
- How to Support a Child Who Needs More Help
- How to Handle Missed Tasks Without Turning Them into a Fight
- How to Reward Effort Without Over-Rewarding
- How to Use S’mores Without Making Everything Transactional
- How to Celebrate Small Wins as a Family
- How to Adjust When Life Gets Busy
- How to Restart Without Guilt
- What to Do When Your Family Stops Using IAFT
- How to Notice What Is Working Before Adding More
Bring another adult into the system so family management is not carried by one person.
Quick Start
- Choose one small action connected to this topic.
- Try it with one family member or one part of the day.
- Notice what becomes easier or clearer.
- Adjust one thing before adding more.
Why this helps
The goal is a family rhythm that feels lighter, clearer, and easier to return to.
Why this matters
Shared responsibility is hard when only one adult can see what is happening. Inviting another adult can make tasks, routines, approvals, rewards, and family plans more visible. It also helps children see that running the home is a shared job.
How It’s a Family Thing! helps
- Invite another adult into the family setup.
- Assign adult-owned tasks or oversight areas.
- Use the Weekly View for shared visibility.
- Use check-ins so both adults stay aligned.
Example
One adult can manage school-night routines while another checks weekend tasks. The app keeps the work visible so both adults can support the same system.
Tips for success
- Start with one area of responsibility.
- Avoid making the second adult guess what needs to happen.
- Use shared views instead of separate lists.
- Review the setup together after a week.
Family Example
One adult can manage school-night routines while another checks weekend tasks. The app keeps the work visible so both adults can support the same system.
Good to Know
- Start with the smallest version that solves the problem.
- Change one setting at a time so you can see what helped.
- Missed days are information, not proof that your family failed.
- Open Help in the IAFT app and send a message if something does not work as expected.
Best First Action
Invite one trusted adult and give them one clear role, such as reviewing approvals, owning weekend tasks, or helping with morning prep.